Paris Hilton’s love story with her husband Carter Reum is one that seems straight out of a fairy tale. They first met over 15 years ago, but it wasn’t until Thanksgiving of 2019 that they reconnected, thanks to Carter’s sister, Halle Hammond, who invited both of them to a family gathering. Sparks flew immediately, and from their very first date, they were inseparable.
By February 2021, Carter proposed during a romantic getaway on a private island, and Paris said yes, sharing her excitement with Vogue, calling their relationship “one of equals.” Their wedding, which took place on November 11, 2021, was a star-studded event in Los Angeles, attended by celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Emma Roberts, and Nicole Richie. The lavish ceremony was televised, allowing fans worldwide to witness Hilton’s dream wedding come true.
Who Is Paris Hilton’s Husband, Carter Reum? What’s His Net Worth?

Carter Reum, born on February 5, 1981, in Wayne, Illinois, is a successful venture capitalist and entrepreneur. He co-founded M13 Ventures, an investment firm that has backed major startups like Lyft, Pinterest, and Slack.
Before that, he and his brother, Courtney, launched VEEV Spirits, an alcohol brand that was one of the fastest-growing in the country before they sold their majority stake in 2016. Carter also co-authored the book Shortcut Your Startup: 10 Ways to Speed Up Entrepreneurial Success, which provides guidance for aspiring entrepreneurs.
With an estimated net worth of around $35-40 million, Carter is certainly accomplished, though his fortune pales in comparison to Paris Hilton’s staggering $300 million net worth.
How Many Children Do Paris Hilton and Carter Reum Have?

Paris Hilton always dreamed of becoming a mother, and that dream came true not once but twice in 2023. She and her husband Carter Reum welcomed their first child, a son named Phoenix Barron Hilton Reum, via surrogate on January 24, 2023. The name Phoenix was chosen to symbolize strength and renewal, while his middle name, Barron, honors Paris’s late grandfather, Barron Hilton.
In November 2023, the couple announced the arrival of their daughter, London Marilyn Hilton Reum, another baby born through surrogacy. Paris had always envisioned having a daughter named London, as she shared in her memoir, Paris: The Memoir. Her journey to motherhood wasn’t spontaneous; she underwent IVF treatments, inspired by her close friend Kim Kardashian, who introduced her to a top fertility specialist.
Although Carter is a devoted father to his two children with Paris, he also has another child from a previous relationship with former reality star Laura Bellizzi. He has a daughter whom he financially supports, though he does not share a traditional father-daughter relationship with her.
Nothing beats a perfect day like quality time with my husband and babies! 💖✨ 💙 Watch the full episode of #IAmParisPodcast with Alexandra Cooper on Youtube now: https://t.co/8102ccTUzq pic.twitter.com/MVvJMc62wk
— Paris Hilton (@ParisHilton) January 11, 2024
The decision to use a surrogate was not an easy one for Paris. She has been open about her past trauma and severe anxiety surrounding medical environments, stemming from the abuse she endured at a boarding school in Utah as a teenager. She explained that the idea of pregnancy and medical procedures triggered extreme anxiety for her, leading her and Carter to opt for surrogacy instead. Despite not carrying her children herself, Paris has embraced motherhood wholeheartedly. She refers to this stage of her life as her “mom era” and says it’s the happiest she’s ever been.
Paris keeps her children’s lives relatively private, but she’s also fiercely protective of them. When trolls began making hurtful comments about her son Phoenix’s appearance, she quickly shut down the negativity, stating that targeting kids was “unacceptable” and that her son was “perfectly healthy, adorable, and angelic.” She’s also been vocal about ensuring her children grow up in a positive and loving environment, far from the chaos of the entertainment industry. While Paris once thrived in the club scene, she now jokes that she has happily become a “boring mom” who prefers cozy nights with her kids over wild parties.
Happy Birthday to my husband and best friend, Carter!😍 Thank you for making me feel so safe and at home and more loved than I’ve ever been loved before🥰 You have truly showed me what true love feels like! 🥹 You have a heart of gold and I’m so excited for all our adventures… pic.twitter.com/e51NXGWvB3
— Paris Hilton (@ParisHilton) February 6, 2024
Despite stepping into a more private phase of her life, Paris Hilton hasn’t entirely left the public eye. She documented her journey to the altar in the reality series Paris in Love and later shared her experiences as a mother in the show’s second season. Additionally, she continues to run her media company, 11:11 Media, while balancing motherhood and her many business ventures alongside her supportive husband Carter Reum.